Thanks for posting. I’m going through the same thing at the moment too. I broke the ice with her today, and hope to make the move in the next couple of days.
ummm you could use the time questions
you ask the girl what time is it whether there are clock around .. she will tell you the time
then you will say .. noo i already knew what time it was i just wanted an excuse to flirt with you
then you will probably laugh haha
I am at about step two with a girl at a coffee shop in my town…My joke was kinda offensive but it opened her: She cut herself and had blood on my cup and than switched it out…I told her she probably could have left it since there was probably lots of childrens blood in the Dark Kenya roast anyway…I busted her balls on managing to cut herself in a coffee shop too. Now she says I can’t order the Kenya coffee there haha
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Forget the barista. How about a medical practitioner? No joking. I recently have been going to the dental clinic and have become very fond of my dentist. I really adore this woman and we get along great in the clinic and now I’d like to take it to another level. I have a least a few more appointments with her and have been wondering when I should say something or if it will even be a good idea. I’m seeing her again this Thursday morning and don’t know what to do. What should I do??????
very nice. I was a Starbucks Barista too and this customer sitting there gave me his cup to bring to the back with a piece of paper.
I threw the paper and put the glass on the sink. Anyways later when I was cleaning up the sitting area and he was leaving, he nonchalantly nudged me and passed me another piece of paper. lol I took it and he smiled n said bye.
It said “You seem really nice! Can I get to know you? (his email here)” lol
This is a genius solution to a tricky problem. I have a girlfriend but I still love watching your videos to improve my flirting and relationship skills. Plus I find them both educational and entertaining. Bravo!
Nice one Xephas with the put your number on the receipt trick.
Hey Arkady thanks for this and your other videos. I loosely followed this video but added my own touch to step 3 that was more relevant to the situation she was working in. And it worked nicely. I salute you good sir for this idea.
If you were curious she would always ask if you wanted your receipt, normally I decline. But on step 3 I said I would be more inclined to take it if her number was on it. It worked well because I could not remove her from the work post during busy lunch hours.
Think this would work the same with a male Barista?
Thanks for posting. I’m going through the same thing at the moment too. I broke the ice with her today, and hope to make the move in the next couple of days.
thats more of an open- ended question. which she will answer and will lead to nothing.
Great advice! Going through the same thing with a barista I met, I just hope shes interested but I’ll give this a try!!
Just FYI, you can’t have a nonfat soy mocha, it has to be one or the other
This advice can also be modified if you’re trying to meet the checker at the grocery store.
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Too much work and focusing too much on ONE girl.
I prefer the David DeAngelo method.
“Hi, I think you’re cute. I’d like to get to know you more. What’s your number”
Weak but far better than this guy’s advice.
Play the number game and you’ll see 1 in 10 at start. Personally I can get 3 out of 10. Sometimes 5.
ummm you could use the time questions
you ask the girl what time is it whether there are clock around .. she will tell you the time
then you will say .. noo i already knew what time it was i just wanted an excuse to flirt with you
then you will probably laugh haha
I am at about step two with a girl at a coffee shop in my town…My joke was kinda offensive but it opened her: She cut herself and had blood on my cup and than switched it out…I told her she probably could have left it since there was probably lots of childrens blood in the Dark Kenya roast anyway…I busted her balls on managing to cut herself in a coffee shop too. Now she says I can’t order the Kenya coffee there haha
Thanks, I appreciate your kind words. Check out my site. There are a few audio programs and other products on there, in addition to many articles and other forms of dating advice.
This guys is the man!
Just watched a few of his vids… all gold;
if you haven’t already, you should write a book =)
Forget the barista. How about a medical practitioner? No joking. I recently have been going to the dental clinic and have become very fond of my dentist. I really adore this woman and we get along great in the clinic and now I’d like to take it to another level. I have a least a few more appointments with her and have been wondering when I should say something or if it will even be a good idea. I’m seeing her again this Thursday morning and don’t know what to do. What should I do??????
very nice. I was a Starbucks Barista too and this customer sitting there gave me his cup to bring to the back with a piece of paper.
I threw the paper and put the glass on the sink. Anyways later when I was cleaning up the sitting area and he was leaving, he nonchalantly nudged me and passed me another piece of paper. lol I took it and he smiled n said bye.
It said “You seem really nice! Can I get to know you? (his email here)” lol
Thanks, I appreciate your kind words.
arkady…you`re a genius…and by the way,thank you for all you videos posted on youtube:)
This is a genius solution to a tricky problem. I have a girlfriend but I still love watching your videos to improve my flirting and relationship skills. Plus I find them both educational and entertaining. Bravo!
Nice one Xephas with the put your number on the receipt trick.
Wow, very good. Hats off for the real life Hitch
Hey Arkady thanks for this and your other videos. I loosely followed this video but added my own touch to step 3 that was more relevant to the situation she was working in. And it worked nicely. I salute you good sir for this idea.
If you were curious she would always ask if you wanted your receipt, normally I decline. But on step 3 I said I would be more inclined to take it if her number was on it. It worked well because I could not remove her from the work post during busy lunch hours.
Thanks!
Man you rock
Thanks, my pleasure.
Thank u so much. I’m in this kind of situation and didn’t have much clue how to break the ice, that’s a really nice tip ; )
Thanks a lot. You are too kind. Did you check out my audio programs yet? They are very useful too!
ahhahaha cool…..your awsome arkady your just great , i love all your videos and site i learned a lot from you, i dont know how to thank u man,,…